Out of the mouth of babes

Ah the things that my children say. It's amazing to me that they can say the sweetest things that you never forget. On the other hand, things come out of a childs mouth that can really take you by surprise. Two examples. Friday morning Steve was getting ready to go to work. He was just outside the door checking his bike. Kathryn was hunched down, watching him. I happened to overhear something she said. As she watched him she said, "Daddy when I grow up, I want to be just like you." I had to smile. She was being completely honest and sincere. It was one of those moments of parenthood that make all the other ones worth it. So my second example came the nest morning. Steve had to get up early to go on a bike ride with the young men. The rest of us got up and I was in the process of trying to get the girls to the table amidst their complaints of wanting to watch tv, when the phone rang. Steve had a flat and didn't have any spares so he needed me to come and pick him up. He hadn't made it too far before he realized that he was loosing air, so we only had to go a little ways. So I switched gears and told the girls to get their shoes on so we could go. That's when Juliana decided she actaully was hungry and did want to eat breakfast. Forget about the last 10-15 min when she didn't. I got them both in thier room getting shoes on, when she gave me a speech that started like this, "Mommy, you're a mean mommy." She continued explaining why she thought this. "Mommys are supposed to teach their kids how to get to the table but you don't you just count. Good mommys teach their baby how to get to the table." I did counter with the fact that she was a big girl and already knew how to get to the table, but that wasn't a good excuse I guess. It was humorous and someday when her little girl says something similar I will have to chuckle. Anyway they do "say the darndest things."

Something to blog about

Ah. It's Wednesday, so we have officially made it through the middle of the week and are on the down hill slope now. Funny how we always are looking forward and back at the same time. I have been wondering what to add here for a few days, and we finally did something that bears mentioning.
For their birthday, the girls got a kit with beads and string to make bracelettes. They were very excited about it, but because I didn't want the beads to end up in every crack in their room I put them up in the closet for a future time when supervision could be given. So the weeks have passed by and I kept seeing the box and saying, "Oh yeah, we need to make something fun." Finally I pulled them out the other day and the girls had a blast. They both decided that they wanted to make anklets. I was amazed at their adept little fingers stringing beads. They really do grow up before our eyes don't they? So the anklets are a big hit. They can wear them to the store and not lose them because they are down near the floor and can't be played with at all times. That makes mom happy and the girls love showing everyone what they made. They keep asking to make a bracelette, and I actually wanted to today, but we ran out of time.
Right now they are snuggled up to Steve on our bed getting a story. He is such a great dad. Everyday I am so greatful that we can be together through everything. Now I am waxing nostalgic. Crazy. Just a plug for a fun movie experience...We went to Harry Potter at the IMAX here. It was a blast. If any of you get the chance take it. The last 30 minutes are in 3D and it's pretty good. Well I need to roll and get the kids ready for bed. PS (can you have a ps in a blog?) Juliana is in the blue shirt and Kathryn is in pink.

Hot One

You know it's going to be a warm day when you wake up and you are already sweating a little. That's how today started. Of course, we don't turn our air on at night, so it does get stuffy. But the temp is already 77 and we should hit 96 today. Now a lot of you reading this may be scoffing. 96 you say, that's nothing. But when the air outside can be described as thick then 96 is not pleasent or inviting. Good thing there are so many ways to beat the heat. We are going out early today to get new license plates and then I plan on staying in. We have plenty of cold water, and popsicles to keep us going. So on this rather warm day in Nashville I wish you all a good one. Hopefully no matter where you are, you will be able to stay cool and refreshed.

Flushed

A few short moments ago, while doing the dishes, I was writing my next blog in my head. At first the ideas were few, but as I kept going they were flying out of me like the water coming out of the faucet. Each new one was funny, whitty, perhaps even inspiring. Now as I sit there is very little. The last 25 minitues have done something to me to erease such things. They have all been flushed down the toilet with the poop that took 25 minutes to come out of my child. So I now try to salvage any good humor and positive thinking I have left to say, "Tomorrow will be better." Really it has to be better or why would we keep going day to day? Must I be the one that makes tomorrow a better day? I think so...but no matter how many times I try I usually don't make it, and by 7:00 pm I am so ready for lights out and bed time that I am like a bullet train through the brushing teeth, and night time routine. Now don't get me wrong, life is not horrible, yes it could be better, but it could also be worse. But does it really have to be SO tiring? How much harder will it be if we add another child to the mix? (That's not news or anything, just my musings). Will I make it to 50 without being broken down and prematurely old?? These questions remain unanswered. I only know that I will get up and try it all again tomorrow. The results may be better, or they might be worse. But each day my eyes will open and I will try yet again to make it through the day with all my patience intact. Am I crazy? Perhaps, but it wouldn't do any good to give up now. So here are a few pics for you to enjoy the two best things in my life that drive me to my crazy place more often than I would like to admit.

Biking for 160 miles

This last weekend we headed up to Bloominton IN, our old home so Steve could ride his bike in the Ride Across Indidana. 160 miles of rode and nothing but a bike and your legs to get you across. He went with our friend Derek Oler and they both actually made it. Not only did they make it, but they are still alive to talk about it. In fact, I think they actually enjoyed it. After hearing about it, two other guys in our old ward think they want to do it next year!! Did I miss something? I find it hard to understand, but somehow it's fun. Steve loves it. I am greatful he has found a "hobby" that is very healthy, even if it is a little on the costly side. It will keep him active and lean for years to come. My only fear now is being able to keep up. Anyway this picture is of him at the beginning of the race. He looks like the real deal huh?

Hopeful for a better future....

So it's July 5th and I haven't added anything here for way too long. But there is always repentance right? We now live in Nashville TN, and Steve has a real job. The girls and I are adjusting and things are looking good. The year has been slightly uneventful, in a good way. For a few seconds while logging on I had the insane idea that I could actually "catch" up and add everything to our blogg that has transpired, but it was a moments insanity and since has passed. So with a little sadness of what has been missed I look with promise to the future in hopes that this time I will do better. Of course doing better with this means something else may suffer. Is there ever perfect balance? I don't think so, and maybe that wouldn't be the greatest thing. Maybe it's the need to find balance that keeps us going, and always looking for a better way. So it's with hope and positive thinking that I begin once again, hopeful for a better future....